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Darren.

Vader Day has Arrived!

 
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Ya, that was fun

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Ok, so the improv class is a whole lot of fun.  We warmed up with a little object freeze and then did a bunch of listening to theory.

The next game was Party Quirks where there’s a host and three quirky guests arrive (the audience picks the quirks) and the host has to figure out what the quirk is.

I had a chance to host a party and I had an astronaut, Bugs Bunny and a baby giraffe being born (Chris Nelson – he did a good job of it too!).  It was a lot of fun – the monologue just came out and apparently it was pretty good.  Cool.

The only thing that troubles me about this is that in a couple of more weeks I’ll be thoroughly addicted and then what?  Unless I start a troupe, or join the Fidgets, where can I use my new madd skillz?  Hmmm.  Is John setting us up for another money making venture?

Improv Recovery?  Improvs Anonymous? 

“Ok, someone give me something that frustrated Improvs might say  -  what’s that?  Ok – let’s go with ‘Hi, my name is Darren and I have a problem.’”

It looks like we’re headed into an Indian Summer – the next 10 days are supposed to be really nice – that should make the end of Sherry’s work season really pleasant.  Hopefully it doesn’t inspire her boss to book more jobs than he can fit in before the e

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Things are going well

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It was a really nice weekend – a whole bunch of stuff went on.

Friday night was a Financial Course, but not like any we’ve ever taken before.  This one wasn’t really about money, but your attitude toward money.

Have you ever noticed that people tend to cluster in like earning groups?  People don’t tend to be comfortable with people in a significantly higher or lower income bracket than their own.

If you want to bring yourself up financially you need to change your attitude about money.  It’s startling how many opportunities that you may have to make changes that you pass by simply because of your attitude.

Saturday morning was a trip across the border to do some shopping and then part two of the Financial Class (it’s called “Healing Your Financial Soul” – well worth reading) and then Dinner Club for the rest of the day.

It was fun and funny and tasty and comfy and just a really good time.  We called it a night relatively early, but we were beat.

Sunday after church we had Michelle over for lunch – which was really nice and then we did a bunch of little chores around the house and took the night off (we watched a movie and went to bed early).

Whew.

So, Michelle is doing really well.  She’s got a job now at a local Telemarketing Company (which she really doesn’t like, but she needs the money).  Her plan is to earn enough to pay for her lifestyle while she looks for a new job.

(Which, btw, is _exactly_ what I told her to do while she was living here...)

Her first paycheck is already spent – and then some.  She has a lot of catching up to do – hopefully that will motivate her to learn perseverance...  it’s the last skill that she needs to learn to really be successful.

Sherry is starting to wear out for the season.  She put her elbow out on the last job and she’s basically just hanging in there waiting for the end of the season.  I’m really glad that we have a hot tub for her to warm up in after work.

One of the exercises for the Financial Attitude class is to carry around a lot of money (they suggest $300) in cash in your purse or wallet.  I think Sherry is a little uncomfortable with that idea.  Hopefully she’ll get past that – I like the feeling of having cash in my wallet.

I’m thankful that Michelle is doing well – it’s nice to see her finally doing the stuff that we’ve been trying to motivate her to do.

I’m thankful that Michelle is still friendly with us – forcing her to grow up could have been nasty.

I’m thankful that we’ve started to change our attitude toward money.

I know that God wants us to be wildly successful.

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In other news we’re planning on keeping a low profile this weekend.  We’re hoping to take another financial course and do Dinner Club and that’s pretty much it. 

It’ll likely rain all weekend so finishing the tree is pretty much out.

I’m thankful that it’s the weekend

I’m thankful that my code doesn’t break like this very often

I’m thankful that our attitudes toward money are very similar

I know that God wants money to serve us and not the other way around.

Steady as she goes

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Once again a pretty boring couple of days.  I’m really enjoying putting those together.

Coffee with Rick was as pleasant as ever.  We went over by about 25% this week and really didn’t notice that we were into overtime.  Cool.  He has a really cool story and he gets me too.  I like having coffee with Rick.

After supper I had a chance to attend John’s (www.fidgetsonline.com) Improv Comedy Boot Camp.

We spent 90 minutes being introduced to the concept of Improv Comedy – we have five classes left to practice and perform.

What a blast that was!  It was an adrenaline rush for sure and it was a lot of fun.  We had a couple of people there from my church and one other co-worker.  There were more children there than i was expecting (which was none).  They held their own and were a convenient prop in the Human Object Freeze.  They’re cool enough that John should be able to keep them under control.

I was asleep about half an hour later than usual and didn’t wake up tired at all, so it’s not going to be as bad as I had imagined.

Sherry and I are starting to pull together our materials for the kitchen renovation.  We’re having second thoughts about the colour scheme (I’d like to go dramatic and Sherry is afraid that it’s going to be too dark and look too small).  I trust Sherry’s sense of style completely, so I’m sure it’ll be gorgeous once we’re done.

I’m thankful that Sherry’s season is so close to being done that we’re buying materials for the off season.

I’m thankful that I can do fun things like Boot Camp.

I’m thankful that Rick gets me.

I know that God places other people in our lives for a reason.

Ummm - *boring*

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I wrote tons of code, made supper, soaked in the hot tub, watched a little TV and fell asleep.

Sherry did a ton of landscaping, soaked in the hot tub, watched a little TV and fell asleep.

Blissfully boring!

Mom and Dad head for Florida shortly.  They’ll spend a month down there, fly home for a couple of weeks and then fly back for the rest of the winter.  Cool (or warm, actually).

I’m thankful that my life is back to boring – it’s better than all the drama!

I’m thankful that we have a (rental) hot tub for Sherry to unwind in after work – it’s cold outside and the hot water relaxes her sore muscles.

I’m thankful that we’re caught up enough to take a night off and not fall behind

I know that God gives us times of refreshing.

That was nice

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We had his and hers date nights this weekend.  It was actually really, really nice.  Instead of finding a happy compromise (which is great most of the time) we had a date that focused solely on Sherry and then the next night one that focused solely on me.

Truth be told I enjoyed Sherry’s night more than mine.  Being able to show her how much I love her by doing her stuff and not expecting anything else in return was fabulous.

We lit the Blue Spruce in the front yard this weekend.  We hung Michael from the boom and Bernie lifted him up to the top of the tree.  He put a wreath with the female ends of our lights zip tied to it.  There are 10 stands of 120 lights hanging from the top.

Next we’ll move the strands around the tree and then we’ll wrap up the power at the bottom of the tree.  Should be done by the end of November.  Hopefully it’ll look as cool as I think it will – I’ll take photos.

We cleaned up Michelle’s Cabbie this past weekend – that was pretty nasty.  We washed out all the urine, beer and mold.  Ewww.  I burned through several pairs of latex gloves – so did Sherry.  We showered as soon as we were done.

We’ll park the car for the winter and hopefully Michelle will have paid off her loan by Spring and we’ll just sign the car over to her.  If not we’ll work on selling it and we’ll put that money toward her loan.

Sherry has one more job before she’s done, but it’ll take the next month to get it done.  Yuck.  She doesn’t like the big jobs and this is the last one of the season.

Our Dinner Club is meeting this week.  Should be fun – it always is.  Hopefully everyone will be able to make it.

I’m thankful that I love Sherry enough to enjoy loving her more than being loved by her (not that it isn’t mind blowingly wonderful to be loved by her!)

I’m thankful that Sherry loves me enough to spend an entire evening doing Nerdy Stuff just to say that she loves me.

I’m thankful that our marriage is a safe place for us to serve from.

I know that God wants our marriage (and all marriages) to be as strong as possible.

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